Christmas When You're Suicidal — Getting Through This Day
Christmas when struggling with suicidal thoughts — resources, support, survival.
If you're struggling with suicidal thoughts at Christmas, you're not alone. Holidays are statistically a high-crisis time. Help is available.
Get help NOW
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
- Call or text 988
- 24/7
- Free; confidential
- Trained counselors
Crisis Text Line
- Text HOME to 741741
- 24/7
- Free; confidential
Emergency
- 911 if immediate danger
- ER if needed
International
- iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres
- International crisis resources
Tell someone
One safe person
- A friend
- Family member
- Therapist
Brief; honest
- "I'm struggling"
- "I need help"
- Brief; clear
Strategies that help
Don't be alone
- Be where people are
- Even just sitting in coffee shop
- Don't isolate completely
Skip alcohol
- Worsens depression
- Disinhibits action
- A specific specific A specific specific A specific specific A specific A specific specific stay away
Get outside
- Brief walks
- Sunlight
- A specific specific A specific A specific specific A specific A specific A specific A specific specific specific helps
Use crisis lines
- They're there for this
- Free; trained
- A specific specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific specific use them
When family is hard
- Limited time with toxic family
- Brief; protective
- A specific specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific specific specific specific not your responsibility to fix
What NOT to do
- Suffer alone
- Engage in family drama
- Drink to cope
- Make big decisions today
- Skip your medications
After Christmas
Get connected to care
- Therapist
- A specific specific A specific A specific A specific A specific specific psychiatrist if needed
- A specific specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific specific specific specific A specific A specific don't wait
Build support
- Friends; family who get it
- Support groups
- A specific specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific specific A specific A specific don't go alone
You matter
- The world is better with you in it
- A specific A specific specific specific A specific specific A specific A specific specific A specific A specific specific specific A specific specific even when hard to feel
- A specific specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific specific A specific A specific A specific A specific specific A specific your life has value
- A specific specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific A specific specific A specific specific A specific A specific A specific A specific specific A specific please stay
Cross-references
For Christmas mental health pre-holidays — broader.
For Christmas with mental illness — adjacent.
For Christmas anxiety and stress — adjacent.
For Christmas alone tips — adjacent.
If you're struggling: call 988 now. You're not alone. Help is available. Please stay.
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